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15. december Randy Pausch's Last LectureThe Last Lecture goes beyond the now-famous lecture to inspire us all to live each day of our lives with purpose and joy
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”
—Randy Pausch A lot of professors give talks titled “The Last Lecture.” Professors are asked to consider their demise and to ruminate on what matters most to them. And while they speak, audiences can’t help but mull the same question: What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy? When Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon, was asked to give such a lecture, he didn’t have to imagine it as his last, since he had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. But the lecture he gave—“Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams”—wasn’t about dying. It was about the importance of overcoming obstacles, of enabling the dreams of others, of seizing every moment (because “time is all you have...and you may find one day that you have less than you think”). It was a summation of everything Randy had come to believe. It was about living. We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.
When you’re screwing up and nobody’s saying anything to you anymore, that means they gave up.
Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.
The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough.
I'll take an earnest person over a hip person every day, because hip is short term. Earnest is long term.
Apologise when you screw up and focus on other people, not on yourself.
It's not about how to achieve your dreams. It's about how to lead your life. If you lead your life the right way, the darma will take care of itself, The dreams will come to you.
30. oktober =1小时= 11月4日，不是什么特殊的日子，只是时间多了一小时；只是把原来借走的时间又还了回来。
有很多想念的东西，却不能像这样在睡梦中不知不觉地走回来了...宝贝过得还好么？
时差13小时。
2008年9月3日。
念/
3. oktober = Oct.3rd.2007 =书上说：沉默是一种最伟大的人格，因为选择沉默的同时，也选择了被误解与不辨驳。
误会——如果出于恶意，那么解释也没用。如果出于善意，就不需要解释，不是说现在被人误会的时候很多，而是这个年龄想不开的时候更多。
有些美丽的意外，总是在你最伤心的时候出现；
有些温暖的意外，总是在你最寒冷的时候来到身边；
你走过千山万水，结果却又回到苍白的起点；
你以为你被众人抛弃，结果却又看见自己站在灯火辉煌的中间。
你改变不了环境，但可以改变自己，
因为年轻，所以会经历一些事情，比如爱情，比如友情，
没有人能够永远快乐幸福德国每一天，
没有人能够坦然地面对自己的坚强和软弱，
让我们成熟的，是经历的，是磨难的，
让我们幸福的，是宽容的，是爱的，
让我们心安的，是理解的，是信任的。
你改变不了事实，但你可以改变态度，
不知道为何，有些东西就是无法改变，
也许，是因为还没有找到真正的梦想，
也许，还在追求那永远不会有的完美，
曾几何时，我们虚荣过，幻想过，为狭隘的目标奋斗过，
待到重新回头看待这一切时，觉得很多事情都云淡风轻了。
你改变不了过去，但你可以改变现在。
你不能控制他们，但你可以掌握自己。
你不能预知明天，但你可以把握今天。
“森林中有一个分岔口，我愿选择脚印少的那一条路，这样我的一生会截然不同。”
基丁说过这样的话...
你不能左右天气，但你可以改变心情。
你不能选择容貌，但你可以展现笑容。
“和千万人相遇，和千万人相离，生命中寻找一个能够真实相伴的人，真是信任的朋友，就是幸福。
至少，无论在任何时候，无论我做什么事情，无论我面对怎样的环境，我都知道，
有这样一个人，在等我回家。
有这样一个人，能后宽容分享我的一切快乐和悲伤，能够看见我的减轻和软弱。”
忧伤，并不是生活的全部
正如，写博客也不是我所有的生活寄托。
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